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April 13, 2008

Inertia? 5 Tips to Getting Yourself Moving Again!

Inertia. Even the word sounds like a disease. No, it isn’t literally a disease but it is one figuratively. Simply defined inertia is: resistance or disinclination to motion, action, or change. For those of us who are stuck in a job we hate, inertia can sap our energy, drain our lives of joy, and make us miserable to be around. The following 5 tips will help you make the changes necessary to bury your inertia.

1. Update your resume. Yes, you read it right. More than likely one of the accuses you have is that your resume is woefully outdated. Pull it out, look it over, and make the changes. Most importantly ask yourself, “Am I proud of my most recent accomplishments?” Probably not!

2. Start dreaming. You probably already have imagined yourself working outside of your current place of employment. Now is the time to visualize what you want to do. Is it a career change? Do you want to go work for the competition? Do you want to start your own business? Write down your dreams and aspirations and start investigating your options.

3. Widen your circle of friends and associates. Chances are the people you associate with are “enabling” you to stay in your miserable job. Should that be the case, expand your network of peers and start spending time with new people who have fresh ideas who will not hold you back. A positive attitude will vault you forward while negativity is a certain hindrance.

4. Set concrete goals. Telling yourself, “I want to have a new job next year,” is not a concrete goal. Plan out your “exit strategy” from your current job and your “entrance strategy” into your new job. Incorporate all the steps you will need to take to get that new job which can include: a refreshed resume, a wardrobe overhaul, weight loss/management, career coaching, and more.

5. Get fired. Well, not really. However, if in the meantime you do lose your job, look at it as a blessing in disguise. Sometimes we need a push in our lives to make the tough decisions we dread, or fear. You can always “fire yourself” by setting a deadline as to when you will leave your current job. Tell yourself now, “this job has ended,” and be prepared to get moving.

You have full control over your inertia and only you can decide what to do about it. It is time to move on. You know it, you really do.

EzineArticles Expert Author Matthew Keegan

Matt manages a web design/marketing company in North Carolina, USA. At one time Matt was overcome by inertia, but he began the journey away from it when he was laid off from his deadend job. Within weeks he started his new company and later, made an important geographical move that has stimulated him further. Today, he battles all temptations to be “stuck in a rut” and is constantly exploring new venues and challenging himself to greater pursuits. http://www.corporateflyer.net

Filed under: Self Improvement Info — Admin @ 10:55 pm

Bruce Lee’s Secret Of Winning Fights Without Fighting

Ever see the Bruce Lee movie “Enter The Dragon”?

One of the best scenes in the movie — one that speaks volumes on just how sophisticated a figher Bruce Lee was — is when Bruce’s character is on a boat with a bunch of other fighters as they travel to a fighting tournament on a nearby island.

One of the fighters — a real dork — approaches Bruce and picks a fight with him. Bruce recommends fighting on a nearby beach, and that they take a small row boat to it.

The other guy agrees and gets on the boat, with Bruce behind him. As soon as the guy gets on the boat, Bruce simply takes the ropes tying the boat to the main ship they are on and undoes it, letting the boat float out — essentially leaving the guy in the boat with no way to get back on the ship.

OK, so what?

Here’s what:

Bruce “won” the fight…by not fighting in the first place.

And you know what?

Bruce was very proud of that scene. He fully believed that was the best way to win a fight. To him — perhaps the greatest fighter of his time — “fighting” was actually a last resort. Because he knew what kind of power someone who really knows how to fight has, and respected it.

Think about it:

How many fights have you seen over really stupid situations, words or common misunderstandings?

Ask yourself:

Is one person calling another a name worth spending two nights in the hospital? Is it worth getting sued? Is it worth severely hurting someone, possibly even crippling them for life?

You know, you can learn a lot about street-fighting in various different books, DVD’s, seminars and articles like this.

But just as important as learning the tactics and skills is making sure you use them for the right reasons.

Sifu Matt Numrich is one of only a few instructors with Full Certification in Bruce Lee’s Jeet Kune Do, and also the Filipino Martial Arts. His students include everyone from Federal Air Marshals and military elites…to small children and 65-year old ladies. Matt also offers free weekly street-fighting lessons by email at http://jkdondvd.com

Filed under: The Warriors Art — Admin @ 10:35 pm

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