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May 21, 2008

finding the perfect lingerie gift for your wife

Some people stop being creative at gift giving when they
exchange wedding rings. But a marriage is a lifetime thing and
if you stop being creative in giving gifts to your wife, chances
are, even if she says nothing, she’s going to feel that you’re
falling out of love with her.

And what better way to make your wife feel she’s sexy and
desired than by….giving her handpicked sexy lingerie?

The best way to buy sexy (and perfect) lingerie for your wife
is…first, to be armed with information. Her size and fit. You
can do this by sneaking into her intimate apparel drawer and
taking a close look at the labels. That should do the trick.
Even if the sizes for normal bras and lingerie are not going to
be the same, at least the shop assistant has got figures to work
with. Forget about the typical scenarios people write into
screenplays or movies. Men should NOT go around measuring other
people’s breasts and bra size with the palm or their hands. The
best you can do is probably comparing the size and height of the
shop assistant to your wife. But even then, men tend to get
embarrassed about making the comparison even if the shop
assistant is not. Remember, they get this a whole lot throughout
the day.

If you’re getting the lingerie for your wife online, you should
check the returns and exchange terms that they have on their
website. Just in case the size is not right, your wife can at
least return it or exchange it for another size or color. All
the better, if you’re buying lingerie for your wife, patronize
online shops with free shipping - it saves you quite a bit of
money there.

Men have no problems with matching their intimate apparel but
usually, women feel sexy and most of them would like to match
their bras and panties. So, buy lingerie with matching tops and
bottoms. Some women like embroidered design and if the shop
you’re buying the lingerie from does not have embroidered
designs, you should get one with laces or something REALLY,
really feminine.

Choosing from a wide variety of colors for the lingerie can be a
headache. You like navy but do you think your wife would like to
wear navy? Consider this, dark colored lingerie will show
through light-colored clothing. Stick to pastel colors, white,
beige or light purple that is sexy and feminine at the same
time. If you’re still in doubt, check with her what her favorite
color is. You can’t go wrong that way.

Filed under: Counseling — Admin @ 9:59 pm

PALS in Pakistan Part Four - A Nuclear Precedent

The decision to provide another nuclear power with PALS
technology is not unprecedented. The United States has
transferred the technology successfully to Britain, France, and
even to the Soviet Union in the aftermath of the Cuban missile
crisis (Man). Pakistan has made indirect overtures to the United
States in what seems to be a bid to obtain the devices, with
Pakistani officials making public suggestions to their U.S.
counterparts that cooperation of the U.S. with Pakistan on
nuclear safety issues is an imperative given their relative
inexperience with safety systems and nuclear weapons in general
(Man). In the aftermath of September 11th, the U.S. began
seriously mulling the option of providing some sort of technical
assistance to install PALS on Pakistan’s weapons (LaMontagne).
Momentum for this proposal increased as several incidents
highlighted the dominance of Pakistan’s nuclear program by
Taliban supporters. Two Pakistani nuclear scientists were
detained by Pakistan’s military after being discovered in
extensive contact with the Taliban government (Barry). In
October of 2001, the Bush administration invited Pakistani
officials to tour U.S. nuclear installations and made public
statements through several officials supporting the idea of
technical assistance to Pakistan to secure their weapons
(Wagner). While U.S. policymakers were considering the option,
the Indian parliament was attacked and the idea seems to have
been shelved while the U.S. engaged in frantic negotiations
between India and Pakistan. The primary reason to provide PALS
is simply because of the multitude of dangers that could
threaten the Pakistani arsenal. While each of these
possibilities may be remote, even a small risk of a nuclear
attack on any country is something that should be avoided if
possible. The damage that such an attack would cause is simply
too great, and the U.S. should have a response prepared for even
the most remote contingencies. The main benefit of PALS is that
they give the Pakistani government far greater control of their
arsenal in any of these scenarios. A 12 digit code would be
virtually impossible to decrypt without setting off one of the
charges on the PAL, and even if the codes were compromised
somehow, the government would retain the option of remotely
disabling the weapons (Bellovin). The cost of installing these
devices on thirty or so weapons would be minimal as well - at
most the project would cost several million dollars, which is an
excellent deal when compared to the billions spent disrupting
terrorism in Afghanistan (Bellovin). As long as the program is
tailored to avoid some of the pitfalls that opponents fear, the
costs of implementing it will pale in comparison to the
potential rewards.

Filed under: Political Activism — Admin @ 2:15 am

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